Hello Misty,
I don't mind you asking. It is a very insightful question.
I am going to direct to some of my articles which deal with this topic. If you were to read them in the order presented, you should have a pretty good idea of where I am coming from after the first or second.
I am afraid that the simple dichotomy of Christian or non-Christian fails to capture the essence of whatever it is that I am.
https://medium.com/interfaith-now/ten-things-david-koresh-and-i-had-in-common-9e56360640eb
https://medium.com/interfaith-now/why-i-am-an-anti-gnostic-gnostic-2f0652edb661